You decide what you believe. Yes, what you believe is governed by your experiences, past and family but ultimately you decide. Once you decide, you make those beliefs your reality even if they are actually your perspectives. What do I mean by perspective? A perspective is a mental view of a situation. So, you take your mental opinion and state it to yourself as a fact, therefore; it becomes your reality. Does that mean you are wrong? No! It does not mean you are right either. Let me give you an example…. Let’s say that you are a singer. You say to yourself that you are not a great singer.…
Are you around negativity voluntarily? When are you going to stop blaming the others? You surround yourself with people who are content doing nothing so they don’t want you to be something. Your creativity is getting suffocated. Your dreams are being erased. You doubt your abilities and you are scared of success. You had none of these issues until your friends fed you doubt and fear. Find your people: believers, movers, doers.
Life may not be exactly the way you want it but you can still love yourself. Loving your reflection is not an option. Flaws are marks of pride; they show you your human instincts are not perfect. They keep you humble. Perfection is an unobtainable myth but self love is a journey worth traveling every day.