Communication is something that people think they are born with but really it is a skill. Being able to listen, focus, interpret intentions and explain yourself clearly is a great tool that is useful in both your personal and public life. We tend to only focus on the being heard part. We want to be understood but we seldom take time to understand the other person’s point of view.  We communicate but we don’t listen. No one is heard when hurt substitutes itself for communication and it is seldom replaced with actual dialogue. Soon “fake talks” replace real conversations. No real plant grows in fake soil. Listen and then receive.…